As you—all of us—embody the HEALER Archetype Ally within you, you also may be a healing influence for others.
Allow your Healer to be available not only to you but also through you!
This sort of healing influence that you might naturally bring to a relationship or situation is more often than not indirect and non-directed. I am not endorsing “laying on of hands” or anything of that nature, as these forms of “healing” can actually be quite invasive or controlling, and I do not support that. Yet being a vehicle of unconditional love or impartial positivity is natural and often may be a helpful agency in itself, even if it is only to lend a shoulder to cry on or in your caring to provide a helpful hand.
Being a calm, centered, patient and positive presence in any situation or circumstance can lead to healing effects on yourself as well as bringing peace or balance to conditions around you. Non-directive prayers of surrendering a situation to Higher Wisdom or the use of centering and uplifting mantra chanting or mindfulness meditations can help you to achieve and maintain the balance you wish to achieve.
I remember a prayer I learned when I was exploring the Baha’i faith many decades ago. I am not sure if this may be from Rumi originally (though it is perhaps more likely from Bahau’allah as it is a Baha’i prayer); its reference to a hollow reed instrument has always reminded me of Rumi’s Song of the Reed. Recently I have found this prayer coming back to my heart awareness, and I am finding there is a reason for that within my life.
I provide a version here from my memory which is very near to a version you can read at www.bahaiquotes.com :
Oh Lord, make of me a Hollow Reed
Through which the pith of Self hath been blown,
That I may become a clear channel,
Through which Thy Love may flow to others.
Better Endings 